Having cancer means battling against
oneself. Whether you like it or not, you will be forced into a war zone, where
cancer is the villain and the treatments and doctors are the heroes. But according
to the documentation, putting cancer in a metaphorical war isn’t the only
language of the disease.
Journeying with cancer would be
more of a mental and emotional challenge than a physical one. Dying from it
would automatically mean that a person “lost” from it. This is probably because
it has become a norm by being commonly heard from the media and from family
members and friends of a cancer patient who think of it in that sense. To be honest,
this kind of spreading of information is really out of respect or recognition
of the deceased cancer patient who actually tried to live with the disease and
probably accepted it as a part of him. Thoughts like these do exist because
people like Andrew Graystone, the cancer survivor in the documentation,
actually think of his cancer as something that he made and not something that
came from the environment. He thought of it as just a bad part of his body that
he just needed to love. But the brand and strategic marketing at Cancer
Research UK think otherwise. They imprint on people’s minds that cancer is a
monster or a boogie man, causing fear to develop in peoples’ hearts. I admit,
fear is the only thing I have ever known when it comes to cancer. I have an
aunt who had breast cancer and suffered a great deal. She is one of the lucky
ones since she survived, but she lost her left breast. She had a daughter who
cried for her every single day, scared whether her mom would die. Indeed, fear
is and will be the only dominant thing when a person has cancer. It’s
surprising how other people think of it as something less. For example, Michael
Overduin, professor at the School of Cancer Sciences at Birmigham University, thinks
of cancer cells as just bad notes in your own body, causing the symphony of
your system to go into chaos. Jim Cotter, a priest and writer who has leukaemia,
thinks of cancer as angels that came from the devil. While theologian Dr Paula
Gooder thinks that every “bad thing” isn’t always tied up with evil.
I guess living with cancer won’t
always mean you’re automatically doomed. Just like how Andrew Graystone found
something valuable that has become a part of him. He couldn’t hate his body at
all. Prior to this, it teaches us an important lesson that positivism can always change a situation,
even if it would mean you are close to death.
by Nicole Tesoro
2013-68145
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